Thursday, October 2, 2025

SPARK!!! – A Car, A Memory, A Lifetime

                  SPARK!!! – A Car, A Memory, A Lifetime

SPARK!!! – A Car, A Memory, A Lifetime
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Poetic lines

Car that SPARKed a light in me,

A cutie, a beauty, a memory to be.

Not just wheels, but joy from the start,

SPARK, you’ll always live in my heart.


While driving to Mysore, just after crossing NICE road and before the toll gate, something happened. A little car slipped past me. Small, compact, and painted in sky blue. For a second, I froze. My eyes followed it, and before I knew it, my mind wasn’t on the Mysore road anymore—it had traveled back in time.


Life is strange that way. Sometimes, a sound, a smell, or just a sight makes you walk straight into memory lane. That car in front of me wasn’t just another hatchback—it was my story staring back at me.


Sky blue—the exact color of my first car. Can you guess which one? Back in 2010–11, this little fellow was giving tough competition to Maruti’s Alto 800. Yes, I am talking about the Chevrolet Spark. A tiny, compact, cheeky little car that meant the world to me.


When the Spark was Born

When the Spark was Born
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Anyone who has owned their first car or first bike knows this—your first vehicle is not just metal. It becomes your companion, your diary, your proud achievement. It sees you from zero to what you are. That’s what Spark was to me.

But before we get to Spark itself, there’s a small story that leads up to it.

Every weekend, I would travel to Hassan. That was my routine: finish the week’s work, hop on a bus, and come home to my father, mother, and brother. One such weekend, my parents had just returned from a function in Palakkad. As we all sat down, casually chatting, my mother suddenly said: “Let’s buy a car.”

At first, I smiled—because I had the exact same thought brewing in my mind. My parents, though, were practical. “Let’s buy a second-hand one first, learn driving, then later buy a new one.” But youth is never practical. Youth is about touching the untouchable. I told myself—why not learn in a new car itself? Why settle?

That was how the spark of an idea turned into Spark, the car.


The Hunt for a Car


The Hunt for a Car
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The next day, we walked into a Maruti showroom. WagonR caught my attention—within our budget, spacious, looked decent. But something inside me wasn’t convinced. I thought, let me not decide in a hurry.


Back in Bangalore, during office breaks, I kept searching online. That’s when I came across the Chevrolet Beat. Sleek, stylish, futuristic—it felt like love at first sight. But another car also caught my eye: Chevrolet Spark. Small, compact, but with its own charm.


I told myself—wait till Friday. Friday is bus day. Bangalore to Hassan. Discuss with family. Then decide.




The Showroom Visit


The Showroom Visit
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Saturday morning, we went to the GM Chevrolet outlet in Hassan. Not even a full-fledged showroom, just a small place for bookings and deliveries. The real one was in Mysore.


We looked at the Beat—it was stunning. But the price, and the long waiting period, put it out of reach. The showroom manager pointed us toward Spark. At first glance, it looked modest. But the more we saw it, the more it appealed. Compared to the Alto, it looked better built, more premium.


We returned home and discussed. This time, I made sure not to repeat my old mistake—like how I had once booked an XCD bike without my father’s approval. This time, the decision was collective. And to my joy, my father liked it too.


That evening, we booked Spark with a token advance of ₹10,000.



The Waiting and the Call


The Waiting and the Call
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One month went by. Every week, I’d call the sales manager. “Sir, your color will take another 15 days,” he kept saying. Meanwhile, the bank loan got approved. Everything was lined up.


Then came that one call while I was in office: “Sir, your car is ready for delivery.”


For many, this is routine. But for a lower middle-class family like ours, it was a milestone. An achievement we could point at and say—we did it.




Why It Mattered So Much



Why It Mattered So Much
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To understand why Spark meant so much, let me take you back a little further. To 2006.


We were doing fine then. Small family, small workshop, two children in college. Life was running smoothly until one morning when my father, who had traveled overnight from Tirunelveli, said he felt discomfort. “Just gastric,” he insisted. But I could sense it was not normal.


By afternoon, his condition worsened. We rushed him to Bhaskar Clinic. The doctor immediately referred him to a hospital. Within ten minutes, he was in ICU.


I still remember watching him being wheeled away. A strong man, who ran a workshop with his bare hands, now on a wheelchair. The doctor came out and said: “Heart attack.”

(The doctor came and said he had a heart attack. That was his first—it collapsed the balance of our life in an instant. Yet, by God’s grace, he recovered and remained with us until December 2011.)


Those words broke us. He was the sole earner. We were young, still studying. My mother’s world collapsed in that one moment. Tears came, but more than that, responsibility came. Overnight, I had to step up. The carefree student became a son carrying family weight. With God’s grace, I got a job and slowly things stabilized. But one thought always remained: If not for that heart attack, my father would have fulfilled many of his dreams, including buying a car.


So when we bought Spark in 2010–11, it wasn’t just my car. It was my father’s dream, my mother’s joy, our family’s milestone.



The Arrival


The Arrival
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Since I was in Bangalore, it was my father, mother, brother, and uncle who went to take the delivery. When I returned that Friday night, there it was—our Spark—parked in front of our home, covered with a cloth.


At 10 PM, I stood at the gate, staring at it. That feeling—seeing something that belonged to us, something earned—was indescribable. Next morning, I took the cover off. The sky-blue Spark shone in the sunlight. Our car. Our achievement.



Learning to Drive


Learning to Drive
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We had a car, but none of us knew driving. Luckily, my uncles (my father’s brothers) were professional drivers. They said, “In three sittings, you’ll be ready.”


Our first class was in a housing layout nearby. Flat roads, a few turns, some slopes—perfect for beginners. Sitting in the driver’s seat felt surreal. The first gear, the clutch release—it took a few hiccups before the car moved. That baby movement was like a child’s first step.


By the third class, we were road-ready. Reverse was still tricky, but slowly, confidence grew.



The Scratch Story



The Scratch Story
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But overconfidence is a dangerous thing.


One Sunday, after class, my uncle parked the car in front of our house. It was a tricky spot—mango tree on one side, a steep uphill on the other. After lunch, when everyone was inside, I quietly sat in the driver’s seat. “Let me try reversing,” I thought.


Third day of learning. Alone. Overconfidence.


You can guess what happened.


I misjudged the side and brushed the strong iron gate. Scratches ran from the front door to the back. Our one-week-old Spark was scarred.


When my parents saw it, their faces dropped. My father called my uncle, who reassured us. We took it to the showroom. The mechanic rubbed and cleaned it. The scratches were faintly visible but not glaring. That day I learned a lesson for life: confidence is good, but overconfidence leaves scars.


Journeys with Spark


Journeys with Spark
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From then, Spark became our companion. We drove to Palakkad, Guruvayoor, and other temples. In ghats, my uncle drove while we observed. Those trips, especially with my father, are etched in memory. One of them turned out to be our last long journey together before he passed away. That makes Spark even more special—it holds those final moments.


Later, Spark stood by me in another unforgettable journey. When my first child was born in Mangalore, I received a call from my father-in-law. Usually, Bangalore to Mangalore takes 6 hours. That day, Spark became my F1 car. Less than 5 hours. Non-stop. Heart pounding, eyes fixed. That tiny hatch carried me to meet my world—my wife and my newborn daughter

The Legacy


The Legacy
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Even today, Spark is with me. Many may see it as just a discontinued Chevrolet model. But to me, Spark is alive. It holds my family’s story, my father’s memory, my milestones.


It taught me patience. It taught me responsibility. It reminded me not to be overconfident. It carried my dreams, my struggles, my joy.


People often say cars are machines. But some machines become family. Spark was ours.


So, whenever I see a Spark on the road—especially a blue one—I don’t just see a car. I see my own story driving past.


Journeys with Spark


Infographic: Chevrolet Spark – Specs & Story (India)

Infographic: Chevrolet Spark – Specs & Story (India)
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Infographic Concept: SPARK – The Journey of a Tiny Giant


Infographic Concept: SPARK – The Journey of a Tiny Giant
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From then, Spark became our companion. We drove to Palakkad, 

Disclaimer: The details in this infographic are based on publicly available information and personal experiences. Specifications may vary by model and year.


Spark with grassland back drop




Tuesday, September 30, 2025

Why Do We Leave Our Hometowns?

                       Why Do We Leave Our Hometowns?


Why Do We Leave Our Hometowns?
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Poetic lines- Entry to blog 

Dreams took wings, flew far away,
Leaving roots to quietly stay.
Parents wait with hearts so wide,
For children lost in time’s tide
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A Question That Stays With Me


A Question That Stays With Me
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There’s a question that keeps coming back to me again and again—

Why do people leave their hometowns and move to cities or abroad?

Yes, the reasons we usually hear are jobs, a better life, and a better future. But when you peel the layers, there’s more hidden inside… something that touches parents, family, and the roots we often forget.

The Metro Journey


The Metro Journey
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Few months back, I was on the Metro from Whitefield to Kengeri. Like always, it was a Saturday ritual—my mother starts from Mysore by bus, and I take the Metro so that by the time she reaches Kengeri, I am there waiting.

That day the train wasn’t crowded. At Satya Sai Hospital stop, one elderly man, maybe in his 60s, walked in and sat beside me.

I usually don’t start conversations in public transport. Everyone carries their own story, and sometimes silence is better. But this time, he started.

“Namaskara, neevu ellige hogthira?”

I smiled and replied in Kannada, “To Kengeri sir, to pick my mother.”

The word mother made his eyes soften. And slowly his own story began.


His Words

His Words
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He told me he was from Mangaluru, here for a post-surgery heart check. When I asked, “Sir, you came alone?” he just gave a half smile and said,

“Yes, I have two children, both abroad. It’s been more than 10 years since they came home.”

Before I could react, he continued.

“See, we all encourage our kids to study abroad. We feel proud, we even push them to go. First few years, there are calls, visits. Then life changes—marriage, kids, career. Slowly calls reduce, visits get delayed. Yearly trip becomes once in five years. By the time they realize, the parents are already old… and waiting.”

He looked straight ahead and said,

“In functions, we act proud. We tell relatives—my son is in US, my daughter is in London. We say he sent this gift, he’s planning to come. But deep inside? We know the truth. They don’t have time.”


The Pain Behind His Smile


The Pain Behind His Smile
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I asked gently, “Sir, where is madam?”

His face changed. “She passed away during COVID. My children didn’t come. It was just me. After that, I stopped expecting. I had surgery alone, got admitted alone. My brother was around, but even his children are abroad. Same story everywhere.”

Then he sighed, “In my town, more than half the houses are like this. Parents above 50 staying alone, hoping one day their children will come. Houses that once had laughter, noise, chaos… now they are silent. They have land, some income, but not the strength to work. Slowly they sell, slowly villages empty.”


His Last Line to Me

His Last Line to Me
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By then, we were near MG Road. I told him, “Sir, Kempegowda stop is just four stations away.”

He turned to me, smiled faintly, and said something that has stayed with me till today—

“Parents shed their blood to make us what we are. If children forget them now, it’s nothing but slow suicide—for parents, and also for those children one day. Don’t let them feel abandoned.”

He got down at his stop, walked into the crowd, and disappeared.


What Stayed With Me


What Stayed With Me
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I sat there, silent. His words echoed louder than the Metro announcements.

By the time I reached Kengeri, my mother was already near NICE Road junction. In another 15 minutes she would be in front of me, smiling, asking if I had eaten. But my heart was not calm.

I kept thinking—

Why do we measure success in salaries and miles, but forget moments?
Why do we call it pride when children settle abroad, but silently carry the emptiness they leave behind?
Why do we forget the same parents who once held our hands, who sacrificed everything just so we could stand tall?

That evening, walking with my mother, holding her hand, I realized—maybe true richness is not where we live, but with whom we live.


Final Thought

Final Thought
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One conversation with a stranger shook me. And left me with more questions than answers.

Family is not just one part of life. Family is life itself.

And even today, I can still hear his voice—

“Never let your parents feel abandoned.”


Poetic Lines- End of blog

Hometowns fade, but hearts remain,
Parents wait through joy and pain.
In chasing skies, don’t lose the ground,
For love once lost, is rarely found 


Family together, Joy Together, Happiness together!!!!!!!

Family together, Joy Together, Happiness together!!!!!!!
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Note:
This is just my reflection from a conversation. Every story has two sides, but one truth stays the same — parents give everything for us, and all they really seek is our love and happiness.

👉 Wait for my next blog… I’ll share more such stories that keep reminding me what really matters in life.

Who knows the next story is also from Metro 

Who knows the next story is also from Metro
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